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Fairytale news | We should ban all books.
Friday, June 06, 2014
'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
Today I read this very enlightening article on Slate [link deleted], that points out why you should feel embarrassed when you read YA books when you don’t fall in that category. This opinion is based on very strong arguments that I have to share with you:
“But the YA and “new adult” boom may mean fewer teens aspire to grown-up reading, because the grown-ups they know are reading their books.”
Because yes, that is definitely something we must be afraid of. Imagine that people only read the books they enjoy! THE HORROR. We all know that reading isn’t meant for that type of enjoyment. We should force ourselves to read other books in order to complete our lives and to grow from it. There is no such thing as reading for pleasure or satisfaction. It’s the same with movies. We don’t watch those because we enjoy them, no, we should learn from them of course! We set a terrible example for our teenagers when we show them that age doesn’t matter. When we make clear that you should do what you want, as long as it makes you happy. Oh no no no!
“I have no urge to go back and re-read them, but those books helped turn me into the reader I am today. It’s just that today, I am a different reader.”
Oh, do share those books with me. I’d love to turn into a snob and a judgmental reader! That is something we all aspire to be after all. Why wouldn’t you be happy that reading is becoming more popular? Why would you stop caring about what other people read, when you can judge and spread nonsense? I say we put patrols in the stores. If you want to buy a YA book, you have to show your ID and if you are too old, you should be put into jail. That will teach them.
“It’s not simply that YA readers are asked to immerse themselves in a character’s emotional life—that’s the trick of so much great fiction—but that they are asked to abandon the mature insights into that perspective that they (supposedly) have acquired as adults.”
It is in no way possible to connect with a character much younger than you, because it’s obviously not-done if you remember your past. You can never look back at your youth. You can never try to understand the way you felt back then, because you are so much older and wiser now. Let’s forget everything you’ve ever done, because you are an adult now. So never answer your children’s questions when they ask you about your past. Don’t comfort them with things like ‘I used to feel that way’, because you can’t remember that anymore. You are all grown-up now.
So that is why I propose we ban all books.
-You can’t read books about witches, vampires, mermaids, dragons, zombies and any mythical creature you can think of. How are you supposed to connect with any of those?
-You can’t read books about princesses, princes, kings, queens, because how on earth are you ever going to understand their lives?
-You can’t read books about war and soldiers, because you are save sitting in your house and you can’t possible feel how they feel.
-You can’t read classics, because you’ve never been in that era.
-You can’t read historical books for the same reason.
-You can’t read books about characters older than you, because you don’t have the ‘mature insight that fits that age.’
-You can't read books about people with your age when it's not about something you've experienced.
-You can’t read about super hero’s, because we can’t fly, shoot spider webs from our wrists or become invisible.
-You can’t read comics, just because.
-You can’t read a bedtime story to your children anymore. Be ashamed of yourself, for reading a book out loud meant for little children!
So let’s make it easy and just say that you can’t read anymore.
(I do sincerely hope that you guys understand this is sarcastic. This is the only way I could reply to this crap. I tried to find words to write down my thoughts and feelings, but I can't find those. I'm mad and saddened that there are people out there who think like this. You should never ever ever ever be ashamed of the things you like and I don't get why some people make such an effort to tell you otherwise.)
Fairytale News | Rating and enjoyment level.
Saturday, May 17, 2014
'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
Ratings can be difficult. I talked last time about changing my ratings from older books, but for me there is also a thing as ‘enjoyment level.’ Which means that a favorite book doesn’t have to be a book with a 5/5+ rating. It can be that I connect with it on a personal level and that it touched me or I just really enjoyed the story – but that doesn’t have to mean it was good enough for a high rating. I’ve encountered several books where the plot wasn’t that strong or the characters weren’t fantastic, but there was something about the book that gave me a good feeling. So the rating might be 3 flowers, but it could still deserve a ‘favorite’ label.
It can also mean that I liked every aspect of a story when I break it down in my review, but I have an okay feeling about it. Good characters, interesting plot, fun romance; and I will give it a 3 flower rating anyway. Most of the times it has to do with the writing-style and the atmosphere in the book. Having all the things I look for in a story doesn’t automatically mean I love the book. I have to feel a connection with all those aspects in order to feel wrapped into the story.
Sometimes there are also those type of books that are incredibly flawed, but you still enjoy them. One of the examples I can give you is my rating from Leah Cypress book Death Sworn, which was based on how much I liked it and how much the overall story was actually worth. And that is the ‘enjoyment level’ for me. The feeling a book gives me when I close it.
How about you? Are all your favorite books automatically a 5-rating? Do you have such a thing as an enjoyment level like me?
Fairytale News | Spoilers.
Monday, April 21, 2014
'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
Spoilers, one of the things I hate with a fierce passion. A spoiler can ruin everything for me. A book (or a movie) is a journey for me. When I start the first page, I have no idea what I’m starting. The story builds up, the plot is thickening and finally I will reach the end and hopefully will be surprised when they reveal the conclusion. If I already know what is going to happen, I have the idea I’m reading the book for nothing. Why would I care about the story if it’s obvious that Y is going to die? Or if the killer is the MC’s best friend? It takes all the surprise, pleasure and fun out of the story.
Fairytale News | Early reviews.
Sunday, April 06, 2014

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
Fairytale News | When bullying isn’t bullying.
Tuesday, March 25, 2014

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
Today I want to tackle a difficult and important matter. I must admit that it’s hard for me to write this, but I have a feeling it’s necessarily. Lately I’ve been noticing that a lot of people like to stamp things as bullying. I hate when this happens. It makes me sad, angry and disappointed.
I don’t like to see myself as a ‘victim of bullying’ but being someone who has been bullied in the past, it’s hard to see this term spreading around. It makes the real case look trifle, because if your unhappy feelings are compared to honesty.. do people then really know what bullying means? It's also hurtful if you call an innocent person a bully. The word seems to lose it’s power and true meaning, so today I want to clarify the meaning of the word to me.
Fairytale News | Concept posts.
Friday, March 14, 2014

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
Fairytale News | Changing older ratings?
Saturday, March 08, 2014

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
Not so long ago, I decided to edit some things in my reviews and I took a look at my ratings. Some of them surprised me. Without second thoughts, I went ahead and changed them. This only happened for books I read a while ago, back when I started this blog. I think this has to do with the way I rated.
Feel-rating. I’m blown away by the book and I give it a high rating. Later, when I really think about the book I find out that I didn’t love it THAT much. I begin to notice things I first didn't see. This was the only way I rated the books when I started the blog. Now, I combine it with:
Think-rating. I look at the things I liked and disliked. Would I re-read it? Would I count it as a favorite? Would I recommend it to someone else? How are all the different aspects in the book? I combine with my feel-rating. If I don't feel it I still don't give it a high rating.
Sometimes I see people who don't read reviews for books they are reading/going to read soon, because they don't want to be influenced by other opinions. Is this only because you are afraid you might incidentally plagiarize something (that's why I avoid the reviews) or because you might change your rating because of it? (Influenced-rating)
Changing those ratings also depends on other books. The more I read, the more books I have to compare with each other. Sometimes I feel like a certain book doesn’t belong with the others in X rating or I just don't love it as much as I did. I noticed that these changes happened in the 2.5 - 4.5 ratings, most of them went down with 0.5 points. I don't change my mind about books I hated or the 5 and 5+. My favorites always stay my favorites.
I like to have up-to-date and honest ratings. I’m not going to change the review (although I have many older ones that made me cringe) and I don't change the ratings on Goodreads. Too much work and they don't allow half stars anyway.
How about you? Do you ever go back to change your ratings? Are there books you hate/love more now than you did after finishing them?
Fairytale News | Important things to remember.
Saturday, February 22, 2014

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
I think we've all seen these things before. People are being plagiarized, authors are behaving badly, nasty comments, I think there is quite a list with negative situations. The thing is, aren’t we supposed to be one big, happy family? We have one of the best thing in life in common: our love for the written word. Whether we are readers who appreciate books or authors who create these wonderful stories, we have the same passion. Please, let us remember the important things!
First impression: Literally.
Tuesday, February 11, 2014
You might have seen some tweets about this new concept, but I’m here today to share you some more information about Literally! This is a website that is loosely based on Goodreads, but it’s more about yourself and less about the community. It’s still in bèta version, but this is my first impression:
Fairytale News | Re-reading.
Saturday, February 08, 2014

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
I finally came up with an explanation for my love for re-reading. People sometimes wonder: ‘Why should you re-read a book? You already know what is going to happen.’ Or even ‘it’s a waste of time to re-read books when there are so many new books.’
Let me ask you a question:
Do you listen to the same songs? I bet there is a song you often play on repeat?
Now, imagine that those songs are exactly the same as books. I know that songs take less time to listen to, but you enjoy them right? You already know the lines and how the song is going to end, you are familiar with the melody, but is that boring to you? Do you regret listening to them over and over again, knowing that there are thousands – millions of other songs you can listen?
Because that is how I feel about re-reading books I love.
I don't care that I already know how it's going to end. Returning to worlds and characters I love is comforting. Is enjoying something a waste of time? I think it's sometimes good to let go of the fact that you always need to read the newest books. I don't want my blogging influence how I read, so I like to let go of the need to stay up to date every time.
Do you re-read books?
Fairytale News | The hard life of a reader (6)
Thursday, January 23, 2014
'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
It has been a while since I talked about things that make our life as a reader harder. Today I want to share you three new problems we all might encounter.
Fairytale News | Pet Peeve: Title and series.
Thursday, January 16, 2014
'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
Today I want to share you a pet peeve I’ve had for a while now. I don’t think I’ve seen this one on any other blog yet, so I’m interested to see if you share my opinion. And if not, I’d love to see why you are on the other side!
This pet peeve of mine is:
The first book has the same title as the name of the series.
Fairytale News | What I look for in book boyfriends.
Tuesday, January 07, 2014
'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
I think we all have a certain type of character we fall for. Some people swoon over the bad guys, some look for the good guys, but there is so much more in between. Today I want to show you the different things I like in book boyfriends. For me, most of them are the quirky, humorous or silent/broody types. I like it when they have imperfections, because it makes them more interesting and realistic. I say no to the perfect, flawless hunks or the macho's.
Fairytale News | Hard life of a reader (5)
Tuesday, December 03, 2013

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
I’m back with some more things that makes our life as readers a little more difficult. This is a OUAT edition.
You can’t read fast enough.
Book after book after book are published. Every year is filled with these amazing lists of books you want to read. Whether they are stand-alones, sequels or the start of a new series: you want them all. The only problem is, what about all the older books? The ones from last year or even 3 years ago? What about the books you’ve bought and piled up in your room? The problem with us is that we always want more. We’re actually just greedy people who buy more than they can chew (not that there is something wrong with that of course. It’s also a fact that you never have enough books.) If there was only a way to read faster, to get more hours in a day or to stop time while reading.
Fairytale News | Embarrassing books?
Monday, November 04, 2013
'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
For this I can link back to some of the posts I’ve made for my ‘Hard life of a reader’ series. People can be so judgmental when it comes to readers, but do you hear us ever say: “why do you watch television? Why do you listen to music? Why do you play games?” It’s almost the same as asking someone why he breaths or blinks with his eyes: it’s just something we do. Something we need to do, because reading is a way of life.
I never thought reading was something I’d have to defend to other people, like it’s some weird mental disease. I READ BECAUSE I LOVE IT. I’m not some kind of freak, I’m not lonely or in desperate need of company. And yes, I do other things too, but at the end of my day I love to return to my books. In fact, reading has opened this amazing world where I’ve learned people that are now an important part of my life. I’m able to connect with all these bookworms all over the world, how does that makes us any different or strange? What is embarrassing about that? (Although I must admit that I've been self conscious about being a reader when I was younger. I was already getting bullied, so this was not something I screamed from the roof tops. Now, I couldn't care less.)
So, back to the real topic: You should NEVER feel embarrassed for the books you read and love. Whether you are a fan of comics, YA, NA, adult books or even books for children of 1 year-old. There shouldn't be a label what you can and can't read. If you do something you love, you should feel happy. You should be able to talk about it and be proud of the things you like. Don’t change yourself just because people love to judge you: they will do it anyway. Keep your head up and let them talk. Don’t let anyone EVER make you feel ashamed for reading those books.
How about you? Are you ever embarrassed for the books you read or the fact that you are a reader?
Fairytale News | A blogging confession.
Friday, October 18, 2013
Fairytale News | Hard life of a reader (4)
Friday, September 27, 2013

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
ANOTHER BOOK?

I love buying books. There is no way I am embarrassed by the amounts of books I’ve in my room. Buying them makes me happy, putting them on the shelves makes me smile and watching them standing there makes me proud. The only problem is the fact that other people might not understand that. The only thing they see are piles and piles of books scattered through my room, so whenever I buy a new book the only thing they say is “another one?” YES, another one. And after that one, many more.
Fairytale news | The hard life of a reader (3)
Tuesday, September 10, 2013

'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
For me, rating a book is perhaps the most difficult thing when it comes to reviewing. It's sometimes so hard to define the difference between a 4 star book, 4.5 or 5. That's why I decided to get rid of some .5 stars. Another thing is: everyone uses a different standard. My 3-star books mean that I liked them and I recommend them, but they aren’t the best. Some other bloggers out there rate bad books with 3-stars. This can be very confusing. Oh, and I'm going to say it right now: I need ratings in reviews. That's the first thing I look for and I find it weird when I can't find one. I want to be able to see in one glance what someone thinks about the book. You don't need something fancy, but I need it.Fairytale news | The Hard life of a reader.
Sunday, August 04, 2013
'Mel on reading' is a little feature I created as part of my Fairytale news. It's my way to show my thoughts on topics that go from pet peeves in reading to my favorite things in books.
There are moments in my life where I’m just disappointed by humankind. Okay, this might be a bit exaggerated, but people say and do stuff that makes me sad. I’ve always been a passionate reader and it always hurts me when people talk bad about readers. These are some of the things I hear/see often. I decided to give it a shot with GIFS, because I love reading those type of posts.
There are moments in my life where I’m just disappointed by humankind. Okay, this might be a bit exaggerated, but people say and do stuff that makes me sad. I’ve always been a passionate reader and it always hurts me when people talk bad about readers. These are some of the things I hear/see often. I decided to give it a shot with GIFS, because I love reading those type of posts.
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